It's easy to try and decide who is the greatest among a group and the pecking order in the group. What is hardest is to not place yourself in the category but to do it out of your heart and not for your own glory.
In life there are different types of relationships. There are casual relationships, acquaintance type relationships, friendships, and then there is the mentor and disciple relationship. What kind of relationship do you have with Jesus?
We all face or have faced obstacles and conflicts in our lives. We all know someone who has faced or faces obstacles and conflicts in their lives. When we come to Jesus in faith He provides a resolve to those obstacles and conflicts.